Throw in checking up on them on Facebook and cue envying the One That Got Away But Not Really.
At this point, he’s afraid that everything he said in the beginning has led you to believe that you guys are a couple and he starts acting in a way that shows you this is not the case.
Like most of us, you want to find a real partner, someone you can share your happiest and saddest moments with.
Someone, who never gets tired of hearing how your day went by; that on your birthday is ready to go to the end of the world to get you the flowers that you like; a partner that is here to listen, to share, and to offer a comforting and supportive shoulder.
My friend asked him for suggestions about good spots for meeting single guys and after telling us that he and all of his friends were gay, he repeated what I’ve heard many times – that it’s very hard to meet guys and in fact, male or female, it’s difficult to lock down a relationship. It’s not like that summer jumpsuit that I found in the Anthropologie sale room in Houston, Texas last summer that I I hemmed and hawed about and then kicked myself for not snapping it up because I didn’t find it another store. Wondering if you can do better all the time, is a bit like when you sit down to watch TV but instead of choosing a programme, watching it and engaging in it, you spend the time surfing around on the off chance that there’s something better to watch.
It’s like you hate the idea that you might have missed out on viewing something better that would have left you as satisfied as you expect.