It’s the severing of a very strong bond founded on deep feelings of dependency and need.
Believe it or not, you developed an attachment to your partner over the course of dating and marriage that connected you on an emotional and physiological level beyond what you realized.
He’s been separated from her for three years (she cheated on him).
He wants a divorce from her and she’s a massive pain to him, but he just won’t take the steps to begin his divorce. I just want him to take the steps towards being legally separated from her.
According to author Helen Fischer in her book our “cuddle chemicals,” namely oxytocin and vasopressin, contribute to the sense of closeness and attachment couples feel toward each other in a love relationship.Sociologists believe that childlessness is also a common cause of divorce.The absence of children leads to loneliness and weariness and even in the United States; at least 66 per cent of all divorced couples are childless. The experience can be so awful that you wonder whether it would have been easier to stay married or even to be dealing with some other horrific life event like death.The depth of pain is often surprising, particularly when you know you don’t want to be married anymore.According to some experts, however, divorce rates tend to go down primarily because more couples live together without marrying.